Is Your Man Not Committing Because You Aren't Wife Material?

Let's talk about LITTLE things women do which subconsciously signals to a man that they may not be "wife material".

Men work differently than women, we all know that. But they do work through their feelings more than you might suspect. Did you know men "sense" whether you will hinder him on his journey or whether you will actually help him?

It stands to reason that if he senses you will help him on his journey, he'll want to move forward... you get a GREEN LIGHT.

Conversely, if he senses you'll be "heavy"... he'll be cautious about moving forward... you get a YELLOW LIGHT.

What you must understand here is that your man is not processing this in his head... he's processing this in his gut and heart.

Here's one way he uses to gauge whether you will weigh him down.

We watches how you act with other people. It's that simple.

Now are you different with other people than you are with him?

Does he see you say one thing about someone when they are around, but you say something different when they turn their back to you?

If you are different this will trigger TWO yellow (or red) lights for him.

What he first thought about you as being open and honest has just turned into you being an emotional heavy weight.

Secondly, it signals to him that you might be a person he cannot trust. After all, if you are commenting about people behind their backs, where will that leave him when his back is turned.

This trigger is actually the deal breaker.

You might be thinking that you were only talking and making conversation for conversation's sake but you have to realize and understand that you are punching his emotional buttons.

Don't forget that your man makes his decisions using his emotions no matter how logical he might want you to believe he is.

This is only one example as dozens of little things like this will push his buttons not in your favor.

But you can turn him around if you know what these triggers are so you can avoid them. If your man does not want to commit, then rest assured that he's processed things you've done and decided internally to slow down or even stop moving forward with you.

But as mentioned before, there is help available that will arm you with the knowledge you need to think of you as wife material and you will be the one he talks about to his buddies as being wife material he just couldn't pass up.

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