How to Get Him to Say I Love You

"I Love You"- the three words that would somehow seal the deal, it's what defines where you and your partner stand in each other's lives. We all want to hear it but then again nobody has the courage to say I love you first. Being in the first few stages of the relationship is rather tricky because we, women, are told or should I say instructed to wait for the man to say these three little words first. While it is true and almost fool proof to let the man take the lead, it wouldn't hurt if they could use our help in uttering those words. Women are so intuitive and more often than not, we know if a guy has fallen deeply in love with us. It's just a matter of pushing those words out of your man.

Fortunately, there are some easy ways on how to get him to say I love you without making it appear that you are a commitment-hungry chick. If your man has given you all sorts of clues that he indeed loves you, the easiest way on how you can make him utter I love you is by showing him that you feel the same way for him. Men just don't blurt out the words without being certain that you are going to say it back.

Also, they will not tell a woman they love her unless they are absolutely sure about their feelings. You may not know it but guys are equally insecure and if there's something they don't want to get wounded, it is their pride. They need a lot of encouragement or should I say affirmation that we accept them for who they are and we are willing to commit. If you watched the popular sitcom "Friends", there's this one episode where Ross said "I Love You" to Emily but then her reply was "Thank You. See that's the answer that men don't ever want to hear!

Give your man some obvious clues that you are also into him and you are equally crazy about him. Spend time with him and be a good listener. Show him that you are interested about his hobbies. Give him a compliment like how he looks really handsome in that red shirt or how he smells so good in the morning, laugh at his jokes and do something special for him once in a while like making his favorite lasagna recipe or offering to help him run errands over the weekend. Just be careful not to overdo it because instead of seeing you as a potential life partner, you are going to remind him of his mother.

Spending quality time with your man does not however mean that your world should revolve around him. As much as he loves you, he still wants his freedom to do things on his own sometimes. That goes the same for you too. Having a man in your life doesn't mean that you would stop seeing your other friends. Don't drop everything or everyone just to be with him the second he tells you he's free on Saturday night.

If you have been only seeing each other for a couple of days or weeks, it's not healthy for you to expect too much and have him say I love you. Keep your expectations real and never assume or give meaning to everything he does. Stop over thinking it! While there are ways on how to get him to say I love you, it's very important for both of you not to feel pressured to say the words. Take advantage of the thrills and excitement of the beginning stages of the relationship. Use this time to get to know your man and enjoy each other's company.