Feeling alone and being lonely are very different. Our heat & soul holds our most essential needs to fulfill our life in a way that is satisfying.
Our Essence guides us perfectly. Many people have shared their wisdom on needs. It is a guide to follow. However, nobody walks in your shoes but you. We need to create a satisfying life and have the freedom to be who we are. We need to shine individuality to begin with and shine with others. We must give this to ourselves before we can offer it lovingly to another. We individually need to acknowledge our own needs and take action to fulfill them in a satisfying way. If our own needs are not fulfilled, meeting the needs of another person will breed resentment within. Other times we think we know what another other person needs. This involves caretaking. It takes its root from codependency. You are more into the other person than into yourself. Caretaking is natural for those in need.
Empathy and compassion moves us to help naturally. When it feels like an obligation, resentment eventually depletes our energy and we have no more energy to even know what we need. If all the importance is given to the other persons needs, you forfeit your own needs. Resentment is surely to follow. If this is your situation you need to get clarity on your needs. You need to be important for you. If your love is mixed up with caretaking get to the root of your codependency pattern. You can fulfill some of your needs on your own and must also depend on others for fulfillment of other needs because that's just how it is.
However, staying connected to how we feel and to the Source of our Divinity through our faith and gratitude is our life force. Love is a healer. It's the natural healer. It's a medicine. True unconditional love has to start with you if you want to extend it to others. True needs are centered within your being, stemming from a shine within to be free, to create the life you want to live, being genuinely happy and satisfied. We all need to be loved, to be heard and to be understood. We need to feel secure. We need to be recognized and esteemed. We most certainly need to take responsibility for our lives. Vital needs stemming from an emotional state are closely linked with our survival needs. These needs are fulfilled throughout our day as we live day to day. Many times our basic needs are simple.
If you allow your emotions to be the boss of you it will take over your psyche. Your physical body will react in some sort of discomforting way such as pain, tensions, a cold, a backache, a headache, or something else. If you take on too much I mean take on another person' stuff on you will have back or shoulder problems. It somehow takes the physical body as a hostage. You follow and don't have a choice. Doctors and mental health professionals would know something about this that's for sure! How do you truly discern what you truly need to be fulfilled deeply within your heart and soul? This has nothing to do with instant gratification of your spontaneous need. It is not because you have had success in life that your life is successful. There are many successful people that live empty inside themselves.
When we naturally follow your heart's desire with clarity we know exactly what we need and life supports us because we are aligned with our Essence. Every one of us wants to reach this destination on our journey. Self-respect is gained over time through experiences. Be patient and glorify the victories because they add up. We are on this earth to learn love. Each and every one of us who walks on this planet is here for a lesson of love. Learn to love yourself and share love with someone else. There was never a school for this. We were left on our own for this one. Learn LOVE and to share LOVE. ESSENTIAL NEEDS STEM FROM OUR BEING, NOT FROM DOING OR HAVING.
We need to be satisfied with what we live in our lives. We need courage to get to the root of our Essence. We need compassion to lovingly understand ourselves. If we are not capable of accepting our self with what we live we will judge our self as needy or live with guilt. If we cannot accept how we look we will not accept how another person looks. We will not see the beauty because we don't see our own beauty. Love is seeing beauty. Loot at nature, it is just beautiful. We need to accept ourselves with unconditional love. We need to be important for our self. When the importance need is not fulfilled we reveal our intimacy without limits or boundaries. Or on the other hand we might withdraw into ourselves, or isolate ourselves. We need to respect ourselves and respect others. We need humility. Humility gives us the gentleness and flexibility.
It is the quest of the heart & soul that leads. It has its own rhythm. We need to connect with our Essence, to our divinity. It is the ultimate connection that leads us lovingly to connect together and share true love.
Only let endurance have perfect results so that you may become perfect and complete, deficient in nothing. James 1:4
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