Do you know that building love in relationship can be very difficult? This is because you both have to take some certain decisions that could be hard to take but it can be exciting at the long run. Wait a minute; do you know what I mean by my statement? Relationship is a very difficult practice base on the fact that two people of different personality are in the relationship and in one way or the other; they will definitely hurt each other. Relationship heartbreak, relationship hurt, relationship disappointments are more of the reasons why relationship remains very difficult task. But if you and your partner can build love gradually with the steps I will be highlighting here, with God in your side, you and your partner will definitely experience a successful relationship.
In the process of building love in your relationship, you and your partner must respect the word 'OPENNESS'. What does this have to do with a love relationship? Being open in your relationship is a simple way of building love in your relationship. This implies that both of you have to tell each other everything about each other. You both have to tell each other all the truth about each other. There is one thing I know, which is, only the truth can set you free. This also can be implied in the relationship, meaning that, if you and your partner can be that open minded towards each other, you both will share truth and truth alone. This in return, will bring the much desired love in the relationship. One thing that brings problem in a relationship is money. Take for instance, money is one big problem in any relationship, and men have to be very open to their female partners if they really want to save their relationship from the wrath of money. Try as much as possible to tell your woman about your income and the amount you have in the bank. If you are smiling in your income, let her know, if you are not smiling because of the income, please, let her know. Let her also have access to your bank account at anytime. The same applies to women who are also in relationship or married. Openness and not secrecy saves any relationship.
Give your partner access to your email address, your social network sites, let your partner know your friends and family members, let your partner know those that matters in your life, this will surely prevents problems when they want to come. Also, let your partner know all about your movements, what you can do and what you cannot do. You and your partner should also give each other access to each others' cell phones. Please, password should not exist between the both you but if it does exist, you both should share it with each other.
One important point I must point out is that women should allow their husbands to give a 'go ahead' to what they want to do. Know that your husband is the captain of the ship and should be allowed to drive it. When two captains are in the same ship and are driving the ship, the ship will definitely crash. What I mean is that you should not do what your man is not in support of because you both have to work as a team and move on.
Most ladies do tell lie because they want a guy, please, find a suitable time to confess to him. Do it in a very romantic way and he will forgive you as long he loves you. You the man, you have to confess too if you have ever lied to her just to protect the relationship at one time or the other. There are certain times to tell your partner about something, this must be done during you both happiest moments and must be very romantic. Truth and openness heals and restores love in relationship.
Let nothing be hidden in you, let your partner know everything about you and all that you are doing so as to avoid communication breakdown. When you talk of communication in relationship, you are talking about every activity that concerns the relationship. This means that you and your partner must be open and communicate effectively so as to prevent communication breakdown. Hope you know that once the communication is dead, the relationship is also dead. Always remember the word-Openness.
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